Of course I enjoy pinball. If I didn't, I wouldn't have the patience to carry on trying
Yeah... I relate to this a lot
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My husband has always been into 'serious competitive play', as he describes it. He has a Cambridge half-blue in bridge and was playing poker semi-professionally when we met, he's competed internationally in debating, and got out of board gaming because it didn't have (for the most part) a serious competitive scene. We tried getting into competitive Magic the Gathering years ago as a couple but he'd played since he was a teenager, and I hadn't, so he ended up in the semi-finals every tournament and I ended up match-playing with (other) beginners who were, on average, in their early teens. So, for me, the social aspect was non-existent. Pinball is the first game where we've been on a level (roughly) and the social aspect isn't - in practice - segregated by age.
So, yeah, we end up starting two-player games at the London and SE League events because it's more efficient. He enjoys competition and is pretty chilled about it. Exactly like Claire, I put loads of pressure on myself and flunk games. Then I get angry with myself, and he says he subsequently feels under pressure to play badly to make me feel better (he doesn't).
Thursday night is (usually) okay (famous last words).
London and SE league, in contrast, I've been praying every tournament that someone brings a primary-school-age kid just so I don't come last! I mean, literally, I've had games where I could have been comfortably beaten by my three year old, and he doesn't know how to use the flippers.